ElderCare Beacon Newsletter
ElderCare Online The Internet Community of Elder Caregiversä
ElderCare Online has been growing steadily for almost 3 years, as many of you know. Thank you for being such a loyal and dedicated group of caregivers. Our community is poised for even more extensive growth: we are building relationships with some of the most trusted health, aging, women and caregiving sites on the Internet. This is a testament to the high-quality knowledge and passionate community that we have built since 1997.
But our website is not just about high quality information. It is also about the real-time support, learning and sharing in our weekly discussion groups and the daily activity in the ElderCare Forum message board. It is a real confirmation to me that the bonding and community building activities that we support here are having a positive effect for so many individuals. Anyone who has joined our Wednesday night discussion groups can vouch for the positive energy and free flow of valuable information. Our new "Hot Topic" discussion threads in the Forum will help to continue these discussions throughout the week.
While we continue to gain recognition among our peer websites, we are also gaining recognition from product and service providers. I frequently get advertising and marketing requests from companies who want to be associated with our tight-knit community. To be honest, I usually reply to them with a kind "Thanks, but no thanks." I am not willing to sell off our private membership list or allow them to target you with "special offers." I have made this commitment to you many times: your privacy is secure with ElderCare Online.
But every now and then a few compatible service providers do come along. I have agreed to work with AgelessCare, an innovative healthcare company that is committed to helping caregivers improve quality of life. The agreement that we worked out over several phone calls and emails ensures that our community members individually and as a group will receive fair prices and benefits. No, of course I did not sell the mailing list, and he did not offer to buy it! You will see some small advertisements on the website and are encouraged to respond if you are interested in AgelessCares 24-hour telephone nursing services. In return, ElderCare Online members are eligible for free memberships for actively participating in our community, and the website will receive a small referral fee if you do make a purchase (to help keep the site free of charge).
I look forward to expanding the distribution of our high-quality knowledge, the communion of caregivers in real-time and threaded discussion groups and enhanced the opportunities for you to access top notch products and services. Our mission at ElderCare Online has been and always will be to provide a safe and secure environment where you can find information, education and support to improve quality of life for yourself and your aging loved ones.
INSIDE THIS ISSUE
ElderCare Forum Hot Topic: Discussing the Alzheimers Diagnosis With Your Loved
ELDERCARE FORUM HOT TOPIC: Discussing the Alzheimers Diagnosis With Your Loved One
To encourage participation in the ElderCare Forum, we have modified the software to allow non-registered users to post discussion topics and responses. I have to admit, I am a bit uneasy about this because it makes it easier for spammers and hucksters to take advantage of our members and possibly violate our privacy. But as someone once said: "The price of liberty is eternal vigilance." I will keep my eyes open for any inappropriate activity and stop it before it gets too crazy.
I still encourage you to register as a member registered members can receive private email message from other members and will be notified when their topic is responded to. Also, only registered members are eligible for special rewards for active participation. To participate, simply register as a Forum member and join the discussion. Remember, all personal information that you provide (namely your email address) is kept confidential and is not viewable by anyone but the website administrator. If you decide not to register, do not include your email address in the text of your message if you want to remain private.
Our newest feature for the ElderCare Forum is a bi-weekly focused discussion or "Hot Topic." Important and difficult topics frequently arise during our real-time discussion groups and no one has all of the answers. Now we can use both the real-time discussion groups and the Forum message board to hold extended discussions on these topics.
Every two weeks I will start a discussion and request a guest moderator to help the discussion along. A guest moderator can be anyone who has experienced the particular problem either a professional or hands-on caregiver. As a special incentive, the guest moderator and one respondent will receive a reward from ElderCare Online (usually a caregiving book or promotional gift from one of our sponsors). Just email me email@example.com to volunteer to become a guest moderator (and to suggest a Hot Topic).
Hot Topic for June 1: Discussing the Alzheimers Diagnosis With Your Loved One
When you receive a dreaded diagnosis of Alzheimer's Disease (or related dementia) it may force you and your family to make significant changes in your life plans and living arrangements. Sometimes your loved one is in the early stages of the disease and may not be aware that anything is wrong, or they may be in the middle stages and in denial.
Whether your loved one is a parent or spouse, it raises the difficult question of whether you should tell them of the diagnosis and prognosis.
Many of you have faced this challenge. How did you decide whether to hold that conversation with your loved one? What factors played into it and helped or hindered your decision-making? How did your loved one react if you told him/her? How did you react (guilt?) if you decided not to tell him/her?
Please post your experiences and questions to the ElderCare Forum to help other caregivers in this particularly painful challenge at http://www.ec-online.net/cgi-bin/ubb/Ultimate.cgi?action=intro.
Three new Forum members from the month of May will be receiving copies of caregiving books by Pauline Sheehan (Hugs for Caregivers) or Beth Witrogen McLeod (Caregiving: The Spiritual Journey of Love, Loss and Renewal)
1. Louise, North Chelmsford, MA
Each month we give away three free books to new Forum registrants (in addition to rewards for responding to the Hot Topic). I encourage you to register to post in the Forum doing so allows the software to tell you which posts are new and to allow private automatic e-mails to be sent when a fellow member responds to your post. Your e-mail address is secure and never viewable by other members, so you can be sure that we are respecting your privacy.
AGELESSCARE AND ELDERCARE ONLINE ANNOUNCE PARTNERSHIP
I am very proud to announce a new affiliate partnership between AgelessCare and ElderCare Online. Both of our companies are committed to providing caregivers with information and services that enhance quality of life for both the caregiver and the care recipient. AgelessCare provides us with a commission if you purchase one of their life enhancing healthcare products or services. These referral fees help keep ElderCare Online free to all members.
AgelessCare is an Internet-based healthcare company that provides a variety of consultation services, 24-hour illness support, and other quality products for mature adult consumers, including but not limited to:
With the increasing incidence of disease and stress-induced illnesses in our culture, combined with the aging of our parents, it's clear that many families are struggling to maintain stability and independence. In the United States alone, there are more than 50 million family caregivers and their care recipients who suffer from chronic diseases, aging disabilities, and other problems. AgelessCare was designed to provide holistic social, healthcare, and financial products and services to support adults of all ages, family caregivers and their family members everywhere.
ALL FAMILIES can benefit from our products and services. Take a look at our membership programs to learn more about AgelessCare advantages!
- To access our online store and basic services, ElderCare Online members can sign up for FREE Bronze Membership!
- Upgrade to the Silver Membership for just a few dollars per month and get FREE 24-hour peace of mind with a toll-free nurse advice hotline! Plus, get regular discounts and coupons at our online store!
- The Gold Membership includes AgelessCare 24, toll-free nurse advice service PLUS a leading national healthcare discount program, including more than 70,000 participating pharmacy, dental, and vision providers! Plus, get regular discounts and coupons at our online store!
AgelessCare has generously donated several Silver and Gold memberships to ElderCare Online to provide to community members as rewards for active participation. This is a sign of their deep commitment to helping our community improve quality of life. Sign Up FREE to WIN Unlimited Toll-free Nurse Advice!. Please copy this link exactly. That will ensure that ElderCare Online is properly credited with the referral and the donated memberships are allocated to active members:
FEATURE ARTICLE: Late Stage Alzheimers Disease
Alzheimers Disease: The Late Stage is the third of three core articles on early, middle and late stage Alzheimers Disease. Each of these core articles includes possible behavior problems, solutions and communication tips.
Seventeen articles dealing with the medical aspects of Alzheimers Disease, the stages of AD, behavior problems and caregiving day-by-day appear in the Alzheimers & Dementia Care Channel at http://www.ec-online.net/alzchannel.htm.
CAREGIVING TIP: Overcoming Isolation
Research findings indicate that social support is a human necessity. People who are socially isolated, without meaningful relationships, are at increased risk for physical deterioration, mental illness, and even death. The term "loneliness" can mean more than one thing. Social loneliness has to do with quantity of contacts: not having enough people or enough activity in ones life. But emotional loneliness is about quality of contacts, not having a close, intimate relationship with one other person in other words, being "lonely in a crowd."
This Caregiving Tip includes a partial list of interventions for helping elders overcome limitations and make new friends. This is not a definitive list but it is a start. Let it help you begin thinking of what you could do at home, in an adult day care program or in a residential facility. Post other ideas and "what has worked for you" in the ElderCare Forum or share them during real-time discussion groups.
1. For the visually impaired
2. For the hearing impaired
3. For those with difficulty walking, climbing (if your elder lives in a care facility)
4. For those with poor memory
5. For the shy, fearful, reclusive
6. For the sociable, outgoing
LIVE DISCUSSION GROUPS FOR JUNE
This month we are beginning a new series of moderated self-help discussion sessions: ALZwell Tonight, hosted by ElderCare Online Mentor Susan Grossman. Rich OBoyle will continue to host the popular ElderCare Answers sessions for new caregivers.
June 7 (Wednesday 9:00 to 11:00PM EST): "ElderCare Answers:" Host Rich OBoyle leads a discussion group on the topic of "Overcoming Isolation." Isolation affects both the caregiver and the elderly care recipient. Join other caregivers to discuss ways to improve quality if life by reducing isolation.
June 14 (Wednesday 9:00 to 10:00PM EST): "ALZWell Tonight:" Host Susan
Grossman leads a self-help group for caregivers, especially those dealing with dementia on
the topic "Ways to make and take time for the caregiver." This topic recognizes
how important it is to "get a life" for yourself and maintain your sense of
well-being and balance.
June 21 (Wednesday 9:00 to 11:00PM EST): "ElderCare Answers:" Host Rich OBoyle leads a discussion group on the topic of "Discussing the Alzheimers Diagnosis With Your Loved One." Caregivers are encouraged to share their experiences and weigh the pros and cons of this difficult subject.
June 28 (Wednesday 9:00 to 10:00PM EST): "ALZWell Tonight:" Host Susan Grossman leads a self-help group for caregivers on the topic of "The Hard Questions and Decisions." Topics discussed will include feeding tubes, death at home, mortuaries, calling 911, etc.
Transcripts from previous chat sessions and support groups are posted in the ElderCare Community Center at http://www.ec-online.net/Community/communit.htm.
If you regularly attend an online support group or host one, please forward information on it to firstname.lastname@example.org. If you dont have a chatroom or website, but are interested in hosting a session on ElderCare Online, please fill out the Community Activist form at http://www.ec-online.net/forms/formactivist.htm.
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