Coping With Your Difficult Older Parent, LeBow and Kane
Review by Phyllis Laudano, Staff Writer
"Coping With Your Difficult Older Parent: A Guide for
a Nutshell: This book is appropriate for the novice caregiver or the
caregiver-to-be as a tool to teach practical problem-solving skills.
Those who are caring for an aging parent can surely relate to the guilt, anger, and utter frustration they experience as they deal with a mother or father who:
Although it is unusual for the elderly to change their behavior patterns, there is HOPE for you, the caregiver. You can eliminate the overwhelming emotional burden of caring for a difficult parent.
"Coping with Your Difficult Older Parent" is a unique and excellent book in the field of eldercare. It is the first self-help book written for caregivers, which offers practical, easy to apply tips and guidance on how to respond to and cope with a parents difficult behaviors. This is a book of hope for all grown children who are struggling with anger, stress and frustration caring for their parents, whether it is on a daily basis or by long distance.
The authors show, with easy-to-read real-life cases, that no matter how difficult and stressful your relationship with your older parent is, in almost every case there is something you can do to improve the situation. This book gives caregivers the tools needed for making significant and positive changes in their relationships with older parents. Framed near the margin of most pages are words of encouragement and practical, easy-to-implement hints designed to help the reader cope with and change their situation. This book helps frazzled caregivers with little time on their hands to get to the heart of their problems and begin to solve them.
The book covers just about every topic that caregivers to aging parents are concerned with. But I would specifically emphasize the attention paid to:
Not only is this book an excellent guide for navigating the emotional minefield that elderly parents often drag their children through, it would also be quite appropriate to use as a primer for the novice caregiver or the caregiver to be. If the saying "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure" is true, then heading off potential problems involving a difficult parent would be of tremendous value to those who know they will inevitably face this situation somewhere down the road. Alzheimers Disease and related disorders are not the focus of the book, although there are some popular resources listed in the bibliography.
The authors provide an extensive list of books and articles which address various topics relating to eldercare. Most are intended for primary and family caregivers, although some are intended for professionals. The book would benefit from a reading list that is broken down to focus on specific problems such as communication, medical issues, death & dying and other relevant topics, much as they are organized in the Table of Contents. Nevertheless, the book itself does a great job of addressing key problems and their solutions.
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